Is there something (sexually) wrong with me?

I think that a lot of the things that we internalize as children stay in our subconscious and end up seriously effecting how we view sex later in live. Society frequently sends the message that sex is something that women do for men. While I don't personally like this message or agree with it, I can certainly see how someone would have internalized it. What it comes down to, though, is that you know what makes you happy sexually, and that's what you should do. If your pleasure is in giving pleasure, there's no reason why you should have to pretend otherwise.